A Letter To The Males.

Hello Guys, I was talking to a bunch of your species recently and they made me understand that they don't want to settle for less, then the question that popped into my mind was, 'Are they the more they want?', 'Are they the best they want?'.

I am telling you now so you will know, every matured girls I can point to have grown over the stage of looking at body structure. Body structure in terms of 6 feet tall, round face, beard gang and all that.

I am glad that I can say that our ladies have come to the place of realizing that it's not about the structure, it's about the content (the structure is just a bonus) because sooner or later, the structure will degrade and the content will be exposed and that is when you will know what kind of man he is and it could be too late or just in time.

So, what do we want?

We want a man that values his appearance, you can't be looking like a homeless lout and you want a girl with the brains and brawn.

Be what you want. Look good. Care about how you look. Get rid of those pimples, trim that beard, maintain a decent haircut. Use good body creams and nice perfumes.

We wouldn't be caught dead with a man that smells like a rotten fish. Smell good. It's a turn on for some ladies.

A man with the brains and muscles will never lack admirers, you can't expect us to be with someone who looks like a bag of potatoes while we are trying to be fit and smart. Work out those stored up fats.

We would please like someone who can keep the conversation going. We don't like being treated like a radio. You should have something to say, ideas to contribute.

A man with a sense of humor is every lady's dream. My man should be able to make my lips be tugged by a smile and erupt in laughter. Someone that can make light of a situation when I am being unnecessarily angry or worried.

We want an independent man. You can't be a puppet that is being controlled by strings and you want us to depend on you. You cannot be tied to your mother's apron and you want us to stay with you. An independent man is a man that can not be easily influenced by friends. A man that can stand on his own.

The last thing I would like to elaborate on is that we actually want a man. Every lady wants a man not a boy that doesn't know his way around life. We want a man, a matured person that can handle of tantrums, a man in every sense of the word.

All these requirements does not mean you should leave out the caring parts where you show us you have our best interest at heart, where you pamper us and spoil us with gifts, love and sweet nothings.

Also, love is very important, if a male penguin can take his time to scour the water environs just to look for a unique pebble to present to his beloved, I think a human male can do far better.

Other traits we will be watching out for includes entrepreneurial skills, patience, endurance, generosity and without question, God-fearing spirit.

Yours Faithfully,
A concerned female.