Lola's Blog

Sis, sex is not giving everything you are and have to a man. Ṣe é tí gbo? Sex is just a fraction of what you have. IT'S NOT EVEN WHAT YOU ARE. A REAL man wants sex, yes. He also wants you to care. He wants consistency. He wants to be able to interact with you without feeling he is the only bright person in the room. My sister, you have more, you have more than you think you have to give to that man. To keep him interested. To keep him attracted to you. He can always get sex. Sex is cheap these days but it's not everything and that's not all you have to offer or all you are. So, don't go all around and start that cry of 'After all I did for him...yen yen yen' just because you opened your legs every time he asked you to. I stand to be corrected though.

Hello Lovers! 2020 is here o like seresere. I was reading a Nora Robert's book when I came across this sentence, 'Why worry over what is meant?' My last days of 2019 was no fun at all. I was worried, depressed, lonely and emotionally disturbed. 01-01-20 morning met me with tears and I was officially emotionally exhausted! I worry a lot. Especially when I have strategized on how things will be. I am that kind of person that likes planning. If I am traveling on Friday, I would have packed my bags since Sunday. That's me! I am careful about organization and making laid down plans. Even though I don't follow through sometimes 🙈🙈 And my inability to see through the clouds that seemed to cover every area of my life (and I mean every area) was what made me so darn upset. I guess I am not the only one in this boat right now. I am holding on to this sentence 'coz no matter how much I worry, things will happen as they are meant so why waste energy and ...