Lola's Blog

Give what you can and not your all so you will have some left when things don't turn out well. Don't expect too much from people; if possible don't expect anything at all. Your own company is the best company you can ever have. Siblings and chums won't be around all the time. Love as much as you can but be prepared because at one time or the other things might move up and down in between the straight line because that's just how love is. Do your best to leave a good impression of yourself wherever you go but remember that some people will never like you not because you didn't try but because they don't have good taste. When you let what people say about you get to you, you become their prey. Grow a skin and make sure it is as thick as an elephant's so that when their Copper coated negative bullets hit you, you won't go down. Life is anything you make of it. If you make it hard, it will seem hard. Make it enjoyable and you will have funny stori...

My people, how una dey? So, this is a feature with a brother, Omotayo Sobayo by name, a soon-to-be graduate of FUNAAB. We wrote this piece last year but it is evergreen. It's a piece but I had by to divide it. Oya mey una  judge, who writes it better? Read on! Hello brothers, enough of your timid attitude, enough of your fearsome contemplations. It’s high time you did away with your pessimistic nature. She deserves better and not just written letters! Bow-ties, cuff-links, tailored Suits, polished Shoes, makes no man. Every lady yearns for a man full of confidence; one who is able to lead her safely through dark paths and rugged terrains to a life of realistic goals. Leadership is about influence and if you can in no way influence your woman, you’ve failed as a man. The gospel truth is this - “The bottom line in LEADING-HER-SHIP (leadership) isn’t how far we advance ourselves, but how far we advance her.” So Mr. M, if you can in no way improve your lady’s pe...

And this is my part You keep thinking... Why do I have to act matured? Why do I have to be responsible? Can't I just wake up and sleep without carrying the weight of a job on my shoulders? Must I be the one to provide for the family? Sorry dear but being all macho and manly comes with some necessities. A leader is said to be a leader if he showcase honesty and committment . He is able to communicate. He is full of creativity. He is God-fearing and capable of loving. He knows how to approach people, he can penetrate through barriers. He has a level of intuition. He is able to inspire people and he oozes positivity. He is confident and able to delegate duties. If a man can attain all these aforementioned qualities,  I tell you, he is a LEADER that can LEAD HER. A woman is one thing a man can not do without. If every man is a leader, our divorce rates will definitely fall by a larger percent and some of our women will be contented with their man. Every woman wants a ...

My people, how market? LOL, I can imagine some of you scrunching up your faces and asking, 'Which market you carry give me?'. Abi, I lie? . . Recently, I decided to take a break from writing because of my exams (in case you don't know I am a Student of Federal University of Agriculture Abeokuta, lol, I am not priding o) but my muse said 'ko le werk', lol. Some of you will understand me if you are currently having an unending romance with your pen. . . . Have you ever felt so joyful even in the midst of challenges that are looking so tall, your eyes can't behold their faces? I feel like that right now. It's crazy when things are just going on as if they have a mind of their own and you can't even do a thing to make it work according to your favour. And that is because you can't. You can only try! But, of course there is someone that can turn things around. There is a Way maker, a Solution provider, a Dependable being, an Olowogbogboro. On...

Ẹyin readers, how far? Happy weekend to y'all. Let's take a look at this article. It was copied but i edited it already. Read carefully. In Lagos, everyone is angry. Everyone is vexed. On the streets, there's nothing but pure anger. Humans and non-humans are vexed and looking for who to pour the anger on. The sun is not smiling, the rains are pouring angrily. Driver, conductor, passenger, even the bus itself are all hot and angry. The road is rough, too many potholes. Conductor is angry, he said enter with your change, yet you entered with 1000naira note for a 100naira bus fare. Market women are angry, some have not sold anything since morning. Customers are angry too, the prices of things are too high. Policemen are angry, bus drivers are no longer misbehaving on the road. They can't afford to be caught and pay any fine. Bus drivers are angry, Policemen are beginning to invent new offences. Churches are angry...offering money is reducing, so they are creatively...

Love is one thing a human cannot do without yet it is a choice. If you are without love, you are more like an empty vessel. Love must just happen. You are either the one loving someone or you are the one being loved, either ways love wins. The beautiful thing about love is that, there is no particular age for having a tango with love and the most incorrect thing in the art of love is that you do not fall in love. Surprised? Well, do not be. Love is a choice and it does not happen like magic instead it happens over time and not in a second or the moment you lay your eye on someone in stead it's the act of love that happens in a second. You grow in love. Now, the million dollar question for the singles this period is how to find true love. There is no one you can't love, it depends on the choice of the individual who wants to love someone, yet there are some things that needs to be done to bring love into a reality. Ladies, your big booty, your architecturally designed bro...

So we pick up from here... As a single lady in search of true love, respect is very essential. If you are the kind of girl that talk anyhow to guys and if they are not cladded with money physically,  you write them off, my dear sister, your enemy that is doing you is still far away in Australia because you go so tey for your papa house. No matter how beautiful you are, never look down on anyone because you never know who is who. Guys, you are the one with the more crucial work to do and it includes being bold, if you can not stand up and let your feelings be known to the lady of your choice, you will forever be friend zoned, so, honey, no matter how intimidating the lady might look, talk your mind, she no fit kill you. Also, persistence is one major thing you need, to find and get your love. If she said no the first time and you give up then bros, I am sure you do not love the lady like you claim. Keep showing her in the little ways you can that you love her and hopefully,...