Jealousy, A Pregnant Poison.

Hmm, wahala is happening every day o. E don tire me sef.

In relationships, Ladies have one problem. We tend to get too jealous.
And jealousy is a deadly pregnant poison, it warms its way into your heart and births several bad habit like Nagging, Distrust, Unnecessary complaints, and so much more.

The oldest way jealousy sets in is through MONITORING.

When a lady picks up the phone of her man and starts scrolling and checking, what is she looking for?

Answers. Answers to the questions running through her mind, why did this man come home late? Why is he not eating her food? Why is he saying he does not have money? And then the next thing that comes to mind is that chat that looks so friendly with the sexy mama on her profile picture. He is cheating! Gbam! His promiscuous behaviour is revealed.

When you keep monitoring someone that is innocent, sooner or later he will just get frustrated and begin to do those things you are accusing him of.

My piece, it is hard o, me i know, i sabi  wella say e hard but close your eyes, take a deep breath, open your eyes and for everytime he cheats or for everytime you think he is cheating, think about his good qualities. Let your mind, soul and body register that he is not.

I have said this times without number, ladies, it is not all the time you have to stress your vocal chords and show your veins. You don't have to scream the house down, take in the chill pill and just calm down. Just keep watching him. Sooner or later, he is the one that will come back to his senses and become Mister Nice Guy.

Guys will cheat, they will get tempted, they will meet nice babes, correct babe wey set pass you. It's up to you to not give yourself high blood pressure biko. My friend will say he believes in life after love. Heartbreak is the last stage of love then you live on!

Sometimes you need to shout to stake your territory, other times let silence be your warrior.

I remain Olufunlola.